This post is for anyone worried about drinking and seeking support. If that sounds like you (or someone you care about) and you’re wondering whether Alcoholics Anonymous might be the right choice, we answer common concerns people have when considering AA as a solution to problem drinking.
Am I Struggling with Alcohol?
If you often drink more than you planned, experience problems due to drinking, or have memory lapses after drinking, you might have an issue with alcohol. Ultimately, only you can decide whether this applies to you – no one in AA will tell you if you are an alcoholic or not.
What Can I Do If I’m Concerned About My Drinking?
Seeking support is a positive step. Many people find help in AA.
What Is Alcoholics Anonymous?
AA consists of people who have faced challenges with alcohol and have chosen to work towards a life without drinking. Members support one another in maintaining sobriety and building a fulfilling life.
Will Attending AA Meetings Mean I Have to Commit?
No, AA does not require you to sign up or provide personal information. You can attend and decide for yourself whether it’s right for you.
What If I See Someone I Know?
Everyone attends for the same reason – to seek support. Confidentiality and anonymity are core principles, and members respect each other’s privacy.
What Happens at a Meeting?
Meetings vary, but they typically involve AA members sharing their experiences with alcohol, the steps they have taken to stop drinking, and how they maintain sobriety today.
How Can This Help Me?
AA members understand the struggle of trying to quit drinking and failing. While they are not professional counsellors, they share their personal experiences of overcoming alcohol dependence, offering hope and practical insights.
Why Do AA Members Continue Attending Meetings After They’ve Stopped Drinking?
There is no permanent “cure” for alcoholism. Those who remain sober long-term find ongoing support, personal growth, and helping others essential to their recovery. Regular AA meetings help maintain emotional and mental well-being.
How Do I Join?
The only requirement for AA membership is a desire to stop drinking. Many people are uncertain when they first attend, and that’s okay.
How Much Does It Cost?
There are no dues or fees for AA membership. Groups may take voluntary contributions to cover basic costs such as venue rental and refreshments.
Is This a Religious Group?
No. While some members believe in a higher power, interpretations vary widely. The focus is on personal recovery, and people of all beliefs (or none) are welcome.
Can I Bring a Family Member?
Some meetings are open to family and friends. Check with a local group to see if they offer such meetings.
What Advice Is Given to Newcomers?
Those who successfully maintain sobriety typically:
- Avoid the first drink, no matter what.
- Attend meetings regularly.
- Connect with others who have remained sober long-term.
- Apply the principles of recovery in their daily lives.
How Can I Find a Group?
Whether you’re looking for an in-person or online meeting, or just need to talk to someone, there are several ways to connect with AA.
- Find a Local or Online Meeting: Visit our meetings website.
- Call Our National Helpline: Call 1300 22 22 22 (available 24/7).
- Text Chat Online: Click our Chat button to message an AA member.
Remember: Alcohol dependence tends to worsen over time. If you are worried about drinking, take it seriously. Seeking help can be a life-changing decision.